By Steve Keating via stevekeating.me Article
Attitude and Effort
“Many years ago I received some exceptional advice from a mentor that has stayed with me to this day. He told me to stop trying to control things I couldn’t control. His recommendation was that I focus 100% of my attention on the things within my control. He also said to ‘block out’ the uncontrollable things from my field of view because they were nothing more than distractions.
Through the years as I’ve considered his advice I’ve discovered there are far fewer controllable parts of my life than there are uncontrollable. I can influence what other people think of me but I can’t control their thoughts. I can try to influence their actions but people will eventually do whatever they think is best for them. The list of stuff I can’t control could go on forever.
But that’s okay because through the years I’ve also discovered that I can control, completely, two areas of my life which have the greatest impact on my success and happiness.
Those areas are attitude and effort.
In his timeless book ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’ Viktor Frankl describes the ‘last of the human freedoms.’ He says that last freedom, a freedom that can be taken from no one, is the choice of one’s own attitude. Every human on earth is free, regardless of their circumstances, to choose their own attitude. No one and nothing can take that freedom away from you.
Before you say ‘well Viktor Frankl never worked where I work. He never experienced how tough my life is. He just doesn’t know,’ before you say any of that you should know that Viktor Frankl is a surviver of Nazi Concentration Camps. He knows.
He would tell you that his choice of a positive attitude was literally life saving.
I can only imagine, actually I can’t even imagine, how tough a fight it must have been each day for him to choose a positive attitude. But he fought the fight and won.
The choice of a positive attitude is a big fight for me even in my relatively cushy world. I lose that fight too often but this much I’m certain of: every single part of my life is better on the days I win that fight.
The question for you is will you consciously engage in that fight or will you allow other people and things to make the choice of your attitude for you? “