By Dan Rockwell via leadershipfreak.wordpress.com Article
Yapping dogs make lousy leaders
“Yapping dogs make irritating leaders. Successful leaders don’t run around barking.
Don’t aspire to lead because you want to tell people what to do. … Talented people don’t enjoy being barked at.
Yapping leaders end up with de-energized teams. People stand around waiting for the latest round of barking. You aren’t a leader if you spend your day barking orders.
It’s easier, in the short-term, to bark an order than to release talent.
The real challenge of leadership is understanding people, not barking orders. Successful leaders explore and understand people’s talents and passions as they relate to organizational mission. It’s seductively simple to say, ‘Just get out there and get the job done.’
It takes time and energy to explore and find alignment.
If you want people to bleed for you, bleed for them.
- Pour into others, if you expect them to pour out for you.
- Explore their interests, if you expect others to invest themselves in your organization.
- Describe success, not how to achieve it.
- Define roles and responsibilities. Give people a place.
- Keep your word and expect others to do the same.
Conversations about engagement often crack me up. We treat people like employees and expect them to act like owners. Frankly, engagement strategies are often self-serving attempts at getting more for less.”